Argh. We don't arrive to understand each other. Maybe is because my question has no sense when we know how it is done physically.
My idea of a memory (imagine it as a town) is, we have an address bus that permit to access a memory element (imagine it is as a building). The size of the address bus will simply indicate how many memory element we can access (bus of N bits => access to 2^N elements (2^N building in the town)).
You have a first type of memory where the size of an element is 8 bits (your building has 8 floors). So the data bus is 8-bit length.
Why can we not imagine a memory where the size of an element is 32 bits (your building has 32 floors), or 24 or even 15 if we want ?
I hope this metaphor will help to be understood.