DDR2 HPCII v11.0 problem, thanks for help !

I am not using Qsys. I am using MegaWizrad to generate ALTMEMPHY with example driver. I have connected the top level (example driver) clock_source and global_reset_n to the correct pin appropriately.

-- Calibration fails with or without DIMM installed. Memory stick absence create no difference in behavior

-- Clocks are differential and at 125Mhz

-- There is some initial activity on DQ/DQS channels, but they die off (at every reset)

-- local_init_done stays low

-- Signal tap shows a single write with some random words, but "ready" never gets asserted (at every reset)

-- Signal tap shows that Calibration_fail gets asserted at every reset

-- ModelSim shows just a blip on DQ/DQS attempting to write all 0s and all 1s pattern, then they are tristate forever

-- Modelsim runs forever (overnight), but test_complete never goes high, and I dont see any activity on DQ/DQS after a initial blip (see attached)