Hi Maik,
I've posted a couple of examples of how to use the Avalon-MM BFM. I always create a testbench separate from the one generated by Altera.
Take a read of this tutorial ...
http://www.alterawiki.com/wiki/using_the_usb-blaster_as_an_sopc/qsys_avalon-mm_master_tutorial and look at its forum thread:
http://www.alteraforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=34787 Things have changed slightly with 14.0, so I wrote an example in this thread; download qsys_vip.zip and follow the readme.txt (page 3 post# 25)
http://www.alteraforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=32952&page=3 There's SystemVerilog tasks in the testbench for performing Avalon-MM read/write single/burst, which is pretty much all you need.
Cheers,
Dave