I am sorry, no, I have not forgotten about this. I have one other piece of "homework" that I have to write up at the moment (for my real job http://forum.niosforum.com/work2/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif and then I can get to work on a screed here.
Topics to be covered are: why the data master is not latency aware, how to improve SDRAM performance in the case of multiple masters accessing it simultaneously, using the DMA controller in an efficient manner to (hopefully) alleviate part of the original poster's pain, and as much of a sneak preview as I can give without getting in trouble about new features that are coming out in the next quartus/sopc/nios release which we are finishing up now and will be available in the coming weeks.