Thanks, Taz.
The thread you mentioned talks about using the older EPCS controller but I didn't see any new information.
FWIW I have setup a project for the Cyclone V GX Starter Kit (
https://www.altera.com/products/boards_and_kits/dev-kits/partners/kit-terasic-cyclone-v-gx-starter.html) and have not been able to make it work either. That board uses the EPCQ256 and a different set of DDR chips, but is very similar to my own board in most respects. I do not see the flash data corruption on the starter kit, but I never see the NIOS boot as it should.
Michael