Sorry about that - yes, you're right SOPC Builder won't let you do that. Skimming the SOPC Builder User Guide (https://www.altera.com/en_us/pdfs/literature/ug/ug_sopc_builder.pdf) it looks like the expectation is that you would then implement a dummy component to convert the Avalon-ST to a Conduit in order to get the wires in the top level export. While it's a trivial module to implement, it's certainly inconvenient.
So the answer to your original question is: no, there is no existing SOPC Builder IP and yes you need to create your own component to do this.
(or, update your tools to Qsys)