Hi Chris,
Sorry for a bit of delay to respond to your comment.
I already checking your calibration report and the memory did calibrated successfully.
I have done some tests to Arria 10 Development Kit but cannot reproduce the issue at my end.
I would encourage to check the minimum PC requirement to use Quartus at this point.
You may increase the virtual memory to equal to recommended physical RAM that required to process your design.
You can check the recommended physical RAM in Intel® Quartus® Prime Software and Device Support Release Notes document from this link: https://www.intel.com/content/www/us/en/software-kit/660925/intel-quartus-prime-pro-edition-design-software-version-20-1-for-windows.html
If that still not resolve the issue, you may try to switch to latest Quartus version.
Regards,
Adzim