Can I set paths that have recovery error to false path?

You cannot use false paths as a general remedy to correct timing errors.

That would be simply not performing static timing analysis.

ddr_clk_ddr_dqs[0] should be coming from the DDR controller's DQS pin.

The DDR controller should have .sdc constraints file; are you using it?

That said, in this case, you probably don't care about the timing from the reset to the DQS: reset will be long done and gone before you get DQS strobes.

So, a false path should solve it, for that case.